December 27, | Dating Tips | No Comment Luckily for you, gay men are far more open to online dating than their straight counterparts, which means. This is not true, but it's so ingrained in us, perpetuated by the gay media. So yeah , a Here are 10 tips to dating as an insecure gay/bi man. 1. Dating is no picnic in today's hookup culture. Everyone is looking to get “off” or to get “in” that we forget how to connect on intimate levels, much.